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ROMANTIC

A Romantic is an idealist who longs for a special sense of connection in the world. They are often disappointed by life. They feel something important is missing. They tend to be dissatisfied or angry with ordinary, daily life. They yearn for that special something believed to be ultimately fulfilling.

Relationships are concerned with a search for the special and unique. Romantics suffer from a grass is always greener syndrome. They are attracted by distance and non-availability. But once things settle down, they get bored or start to see what is missing or not good enough in the other person. Hence, they have trouble committing. Lasting happiness is elusive.

A Romantic perennially longs for a depth and intensity of emotional connection. Yet it always seems missing, and their partner fails to match their idealized yearnings.
They feel special, different, but at times they also feel like a misfit. They seem to generate dramatic crises, easily feeling rejected, abandoned, jealous, or envious.

They can become subject to having huge emotional swings. People have difficulty coping with their intense drama. Others can also feel rejected, as being seen as not good enough.

Personal growth for a Romantic is to see what is positive in life in the moment, rather than seeing what is missing. Learn to enjoy being in the here and now. Find things to appreciate in ordinary everyday experiences. Growth occurs as a Romantic maintains a consistent course of action, despite intense mood swings. They need to slow down and delay their emotional reactions. Additionally, helping others is good for a Romantic, offering a way to become less self-absorbed.


ELEMENT

Sad, lonely, distant andunique. You are quite distant from emotion andpeople, but you have been made this way by onething or another. Your are truly unique yetfail to see it, and are quite creative be it inart, music, writing, etc.. You used to letpeople in now you don't even bother to tryhaving been hurt so many times in the past.Your attitude is that you don't need anyone butyourself, people are just trouble waiting tohappen. But you really do want to trust someoneno matter if you see it or not, deep down yourwaiting for someone to come and set you free.This kind of depression can turn dangerous,don't let them get to you. Not everyone in theworld will hurt you, humans are humans and arenot perfect. So most likely sooner or lateryou'll meet someone who feels like you do andperhaps your shell will eventually disappear.


BLACK WINGS
Your feathers are dark, ravenblack, which can also be spiny and scaly. Noone really knows why your feathers are thisdark, because you always conceal yourself witha bubble. A great sadness surrounds you, andyou take it out on others and the world. InSpite of your beauty, your inside is twistedand dead, because you were hurt so badly thatyoure heart couldnt take it. Before, your wingswere white, and slowly, when your life waschanging, so was the color. You have nofriends, because you cant let anyone get tooclose to you. Grief fills your heart, thoughanger blinds your eyes.



OUTCAST ANGEL!
These angels were once upona time, very loved, and of the highest ranks ofall the angels. But, when something terriblehappened in their lives, much like thedark-angels, the outcats leave the heavens andmove down to earth. Out cats angel are notnessearily evil. In fact, they are quite kind,but filled with greif and guilt unimaginable.Outcast angels are usually formed when theyhave failed something, and ridden with guilt,they are banned out of heaven, sent down toearth, and live alone. They are always quiteand sad, and rarely contact with humans. If ahuam befriends an outcast angel, they have afriend for life.

PURPLE WINGS!
Lost and Confused, when yourwings are purple, its difficult to see aheadbecause the fog is clouding your vision. Youcan never decide easily, and even the simplestchoices are difficult to take. A quite, kindperson, you have a very sharp mind and can doanything if you set your mind to it. Butsomething probably very sad happened in yourlife, and now, you question anything. Lost inyour trance and afraid to peak outside yourbox, right now your life is very frustrating.But, dont forget this very important thing:Purple is made from blue and red, and with justa little bit of pushing, you can go back.


YOU REPRESENT... LONELINESS.
Always alone and always sad about it... unlikeangst, you don't have to look for a reason tobe miserable. You want to be in the company ofpeople but aren't sure how to act when you'rewith them. Sometimes you have to make aneffort. You can't always wait for others tocome to you.

SAD SMILE
You're the sad smile,the one that regrets nearlyeverything and is constantly wondering aboutwhat could have been.You're not happy with yoursituation and usually blame yourself because ofthe bad things that have happened.Cheer up.