james13

yapp, its Rena_286@hotmail.com ^^

but if youve got feelings for, then give her a chance :) if she is disapointing you then she is not worth you and then tell her she have got the chance, and that that was the only one

but when she is telling you that she have changed.. then trust her... and if she havent then tell her and say that she got a chance..if she really cares she wont disapoint ya ;) just trust me

oh i see..but what are you afraid of? did she do you something ?

awwh, she seems to be feeling like me. But what are you afraid? Is it something she did that you are afraid will happen again ?

and i dont think you are a bastard that dont care, cause for me it looking like youre trying to understand her, but tha youre giving up :)
So thats why i wanna help you ^^ and her. but not her if she is a slut >:(
And after your stories i can tell that you are trying, but you dont understand. and thats not your fault ^^ so then i will help you to understand ^^ youre not a bastard just unsure.. and when youre unsure dont give up trying to me sure.

to be * ._. my comp hates me

So what are this things?
I am talking to my ex bf right now.. he tells me he arent sure because we argued lots.. but i have told him i am not going to argue anymore! I just really could hope he could trust me when i said it.. cause i know it! what can i do? I am trying my best to get him back..

But back to you and your gf... so is she mean to you now? Is it like she "I dont care"? Then she is not worth it.. but if you can see that she really cares and says sorry, then i guess she means it. how long is it since you two broke up?
and are you two a real world relationship? or over internet?
If it is over internet....then i cant help ya sorry :(
But if its in the real world its something you can see after for finding it out.
- Feelings. the most supporten thing. do you have feelings for her, then it works out. if youve got feelings for her then you are like 85% on that you want her back.
(to find out if you have feelings for her.. then you can ask this questions to yourself.
- Do I like her?
- Do I wanna hug her?
- Do I wanna kiss her? (if you two ever did that?)
- Do I wanna have sex with her? (If you two started with that)
and do i want to just hold her in my arms and dont let go?

If all these are yes, then you do have feelings for her :)
And then you should give her another chance :) Also skip question 3 and 4 if you two didnt do it.

But also, when i wanted to go back to my ex bf (the same one, just that this is a year before, he broke up and asked me back) Then he tried this questions, and everyone were a yes, but.... i was still confused :( My mom told me it was because my brain came in the way. And thats not right, because a relationship are based on love and lust, not your brain. so she asked me these questions:

- Are he/she nice to you?
- Can you go to him/her when youre sad?
- Can you lie down with him/her and talk to him/her ?
- Do he/she cares?
- And are he/she worried about what other things think when he/she is together with you?

if the answers are:
yes
yes
yes (I had yes but sometimes not, but it worked out too)
yes
and no

then youre 95% on that she is right for you, and that it will work out. :D
Buuut.. after that questions i still was confused!
so.. the last thing i did was to try out what my heart really wanted to.. and i kissed him.. hugged him and i just was so damn in love when i was doing it! so I knew that was what my heart wanted...but.. after it.. when he was gone, then i was confused again. But my mom told me it just was my brain that was kidding with me, and made me feel bad. But it wasnt the real feeling it just was a feeling that always comes up. so, I asked him back myself and he got so happy ^^ It made me cry ^^ so if this happens, that you kisses her in the end, then you can be 100% sure :)

So, tell me the answers on your questions, and I will figure out :)
And i will also contact your ex gf to see if she really do care :) And if she dont, then just forget about her :)
I guess is is this hatomi person? I was snooking around in your comments xD

So if you get these answers on the question..then give her another chance :) after hearing what the other things is, i will try to figure out about them too for you ^^
And, i guess it is kinda like i am pushing you, butjust trust me, i know how she feels..(if she really cares) it horrible :( and trust me, if she gets you back, then she will adore you :) Do everything for you and always be there ^^
My ex bf told me i complained on everything he did... that he always did things wrong and stuff...And that i didnt let him out to friends enough.. And first now i understand that it was true! If he wants me back now, then i will love him more than anything! I will let him more out with his buddies and i wont complain at him. Cause now i know that what i did was unfair to him.. and anything i was thinking on was that things was unfair for me.. now i miss him.. and its horrible to feel that i now can do it better but that he dont belive me :( So please james.. if she are saying those things and trying her best,.. then.. please give her another chance :(
and if it shows that she havent changed at all, then you just tell her "Hey look, i dont think this have changed at all.. so lets go to eachother part" and then she used up her chance. it much better to try it i you still have feelings for her, ok?

And I am truing to make my ex bf a account here, and he will use it :) so when its dont you two can talk, cause you two are in the same situation tough :)

So I will check what your ex gf is saying and then tell you ;)

Just belive me, she will adore you :) If she are feeling the same as me tough.

oh my gosh that was a long message XD

well thats pretty much the situation but it is still some stuf in there that are not filled out and makes the situation much more complicated then it is....

so your ex girlfriend want you back ?
oh, ye i remember from your story..
just listen okay.. i know how it is to breake up with someone and miss the person so damn much after it :( Its HORRIBLE.. worser than that. so.. if she says that she can do better and show you the love you should have gotten and you still have got feelings for her.. then? whats left?! Its the only thing you need.. just please.. give her a chance.. i am not trying to push you or anything.. i just know how horrrible it is :( so.. if she are nice to you now (its something else if she is like "whatever" then so dont care, so then you dont give her another chance!!!) and shows that she cares.. then.. give her a chance.. if you see that she dont care she just wanted to play with you, then leave her, and dont contact her again. and after she have got a chance, then she have used it up. If she dont care after that chance, then dont talk to her again.
but i know the feeling.. so just try if you have got feelings for her still :( she have to feel horrible.. and if she is a slut to you.. then spit at her and i will go kick her @$$!!!

i ment (if she is like "whatever" the SHE dont care*

sorry xD